Carrie Prejean, who holds the title of
Miss California, made some comments on the subject of
gay marriage that have led to
quite a controversy. Now that she is opposed to gay marriage may be a fact, but the important facts are:
- She is a beauty contest winner, not a politician who may be running the country,
- She is an American citizen, with First Amendment rights, and
- She is clearly a homophobic bigot.
Nobody need apologize for calling Carrie Prejean a
bigot. She has clearly expressed herself, and
demonstrated this. But calls for her to
give up her Miss California title, which I saw after she had made the comments, are clearly
unjustified. To my knowledge, the
only qualifications for the title she holds are
beauty and perhaps some
entertainment-related talent. That she is a
bigot doesn't disqualify her.
On the other hand, this doesn't make her a
great person. She is (I hope you do not mind my repetition of these words) a
homophobic bigot, and she deserves
criticism over this. Anyone criticizing her has, just as much as
she does, a First Amendment right to express himself.
This blog has
not advocated gay marriage, and in fact I believe that at present a
civil-union option is probably the best idea, but
not because I
oppose the idea of gay marriage. I merely think that the
rights and privileges of a married couple are far more important than the
actual word you use. And it is going to be
easier to get
civil unions in a lot of states than
marriage by that name. If there are people who (for Biblical or other religious-based reasons)
cannot support gay marriage but
will accept civil unions, it's better to have them
on your side than
opposed to what you're trying to do. So
this is my reason, and certainly the actual institution of marriage in states from Maine to Iowa gets no opposition from me;
if you have the votes to get
marriage legalized in your state, go for it. But a lot of effort was spent getting marriage in
Vermont, which
already had civil unions, and I think it would have been used to
better effect getting civil unions in states that had
no recognition of gay unions at all.